Selena Gomez on what it felt like the first time someone made her feel safe, and why she did not recognise it at first.
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Selena Gomez on what it felt like the first time someone made her feel safe, and why she did not recognise it at first.
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You can care about someone without carrying their bad day. Jay on where the line actually sits.
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You can care about someone without carrying their bad day. Jay on where the line actually sits.
Watch and listen to On Purpose on Netflix & Spotify.
#jayshetty #shorts #onpurpose #podcast
The person you feel the biggest spark with is often the one who treats you the way you treat yourself.
In this clip, Thais Gibson and Jay Shetty break down the four attachment styles. She explains where each one starts in childhood. And she shows why it keeps showing up in who you date.
Thais shares the one sentence from a classmate that changed how she saw herself. And she explains why so many people meet a kind, steady partner and feel nothing at all.
Learn about the simple 21-day exercise she uses to rewire old wounds, and why affirmations aren't part of it. And learn which partner she'd pick: the one who feels safe, or the one who keeps you on edge.
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Chapters
0:00 The four attachment styles, explained simply
0:32 How securely attached people are raised
2:37 The anxious style and the fear of being left
5:16 Painkillers at 15 and the sentence that changed her life
8:25 The bear in the woods
9:04 The dismissive avoidant style
11:43 The fearful avoidant style
14:13 Reading every door slam as a kid
15:55 Why you're drawn to the familiar, not the right one
18:25 Why secure people can feel boring
21:27 Why affirmations don't work
23:13 The 10-memory rewiring exercise
26:25 Meeting the needs you never had met
30:21 Learning to validate yourself like learning to drive
33:39 The husband who took out the trash
36:46 When your need feels like too much
40:32 Boundaries for every attachment style
44:55 Anxious vs avoidant: breaking the cycle
49:35 Should you feel 100% sure about your partner
53:45 Safe and boring vs exciting and unsure
55:55 The final five
Watch the FULL episode on Netflix & Spotify 🎙️
Netflix - https://dub.sh/QaUsKeD
Spotify - https://dub.sh/axUXylv
Full Episode With Thais Gibson:
https://youtu.be/4Ng2Mrp7pW0
Episode Resources:
Website | http://offer.personaldevelopmentschool.com/podcast/all-access-pass
YouTube | https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCHQ4lSaKRap5HyrpitrTOhQ
Facebook | https://www.facebook.com/ThePersonalDevelopmentSchool/
Instagram | https://www.instagram.com/thepersonaldevelopmentschool/
TikTok | https://www.tiktok.com/@thaisgibson
58:05
The person you feel the biggest spark with is often the one who treats you the way you treat yourself.
In this clip, Thais Gibson and Jay Shetty break down the four attachment styles. She explains where each one starts in childhood. And she shows why it keeps showing up in who you date.
Thais shares the one sentence from a classmate that changed how she saw herself. And she explains why so many people meet a kind, steady partner and feel nothing at all.
Learn about the simple 21-day exercise she uses to rewire old wounds, and why affirmations aren't part of it. And learn which partner she'd pick: the one who feels safe, or the one who keeps you on edge.
JAY'S DAILY WISDOM DELIVERED STRAIGHT TO YOUR INBOX
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Chapters
0:00 The four attachment styles, explained simply
0:32 How securely attached people are raised
2:37 The anxious style and the fear of being left
5:16 Painkillers at 15 and the sentence that changed her life
8:25 The bear in the woods
9:04 The dismissive avoidant style
11:43 The fearful avoidant style
14:13 Reading every door slam as a kid
15:55 Why you're drawn to the familiar, not the right one
18:25 Why secure people can feel boring
21:27 Why affirmations don't work
23:13 The 10-memory rewiring exercise
26:25 Meeting the needs you never had met
30:21 Learning to validate yourself like learning to drive
33:39 The husband who took out the trash
36:46 When your need feels like too much
40:32 Boundaries for every attachment style
44:55 Anxious vs avoidant: breaking the cycle
49:35 Should you feel 100% sure about your partner
53:45 Safe and boring vs exciting and unsure
55:55 The final five
Watch the FULL episode on Netflix & Spotify 🎙️
Netflix - https://dub.sh/QaUsKeD
Spotify - https://dub.sh/axUXylv
Full Episode With Thais Gibson:
https://youtu.be/4Ng2Mrp7pW0
Episode Resources:
Website | http://offer.personaldevelopmentschool.com/podcast/all-access-pass
YouTube | https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCHQ4lSaKRap5HyrpitrTOhQ
Facebook | https://www.facebook.com/ThePersonalDevelopmentSchool/
Instagram | https://www.instagram.com/thepersonaldevelopmentschool/
TikTok | https://www.tiktok.com/@thaisgibson
You are allowed to pay the bills with one thing and come alive doing another. Jay on separating the two.
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You are allowed to pay the bills with one thing and come alive doing another. Jay on separating the two.
Watch and listen to On Purpose on Netflix & Spotify.
#jayshetty #shorts #onpurpose #podcast
Nobody was born resilient. Jay on what the strongest person you know went through to get there.
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Nobody was born resilient. Jay on what the strongest person you know went through to get there.
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#jayshetty #shorts #onpurpose #podcast
You did everything right.
You took every step you were told to take.
Then one day you wake up and this isn't the life you want.
Dr. K says it's called a quarter life crisis, and almost no one can see it.
In this episode, Dr. K and Jay Shetty talk about why people in their 20s and 30s feel lost. The old plan for life no longer works, school costs too much, rent is too high and the goals we were given are out of reach.
Dr. K explains what to do when you feel late. He shares the Buddha's idea of the second arrow, and why it applies to good news too. And he tells the story of a patient who wouldn't quit smoking, until he asked him one hard question about his daughters.
Learn about the baggage you bring to every date without knowing it and why Dr. K says "be yourself" is the worst advice you can get.
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Chapters
0:00 Why people feel lost when life looks fine
1:08 The quarter life crisis
2:52 Why the goals can't be reached anymore
5:34 What to do when you feel behind
6:00 Identification vs. identity
9:03 The second arrow
10:12 Why good news can trap you too
12:43 How to stop caring what people think
19:31 The baggage you carry into every date
24:18 Why you should look at people you're not attracted to
24:56 Why "be yourself" is terrible advice
26:13 What it means to be a man right now
31:32 Why knowing what to do doesn't change what you do
34:23 Focus on the cost, not the benefit
35:58 The three things that create purpose
41:01 The Final Five
43:34 Watch what happens, not what you do
Watch the FULL episode on Netflix & Spotify 🎙️
Netflix - https://dub.sh/QaUsKeD
Spotify - https://dub.sh/axUXylv
Full Episode With Dr. K:
https://youtu.be/dMFhqbfnIfQ
Episode Resources:
Check out more from Dr.K https://www.youtube.com/@HealthyGamerGG
Twitter @HealthyGamerGG https://twitter.com/HealthyGamerGG
Tiktok @healthygamer.gg https://www.tiktok.com/@healthygamer.gg
Instagram @healthygamer_gg https://www.instagram.com/healthygamer_gg/
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You did everything right.
You took every step you were told to take.
Then one day you wake up and this isn't the life you want.
Dr. K says it's called a quarter life crisis, and almost no one can see it.
In this episode, Dr. K and Jay Shetty talk about why people in their 20s and 30s feel lost. The old plan for life no longer works, school costs too much, rent is too high and the goals we were given are out of reach.
Dr. K explains what to do when you feel late. He shares the Buddha's idea of the second arrow, and why it applies to good news too. And he tells the story of a patient who wouldn't quit smoking, until he asked him one hard question about his daughters.
Learn about the baggage you bring to every date without knowing it and why Dr. K says "be yourself" is the worst advice you can get.
JAY'S DAILY WISDOM DELIVERED STRAIGHT TO YOUR INBOX
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Chapters
0:00 Why people feel lost when life looks fine
1:08 The quarter life crisis
2:52 Why the goals can't be reached anymore
5:34 What to do when you feel behind
6:00 Identification vs. identity
9:03 The second arrow
10:12 Why good news can trap you too
12:43 How to stop caring what people think
19:31 The baggage you carry into every date
24:18 Why you should look at people you're not attracted to
24:56 Why "be yourself" is terrible advice
26:13 What it means to be a man right now
31:32 Why knowing what to do doesn't change what you do
34:23 Focus on the cost, not the benefit
35:58 The three things that create purpose
41:01 The Final Five
43:34 Watch what happens, not what you do
Watch the FULL episode on Netflix & Spotify 🎙️
Netflix - https://dub.sh/QaUsKeD
Spotify - https://dub.sh/axUXylv
Full Episode With Dr. K:
https://youtu.be/dMFhqbfnIfQ
Episode Resources:
Check out more from Dr.K https://www.youtube.com/@HealthyGamerGG
Twitter @HealthyGamerGG https://twitter.com/HealthyGamerGG
Tiktok @healthygamer.gg https://www.tiktok.com/@healthygamer.gg
Instagram @healthygamer_gg https://www.instagram.com/healthygamer_gg/
Khloe Kardashian on keeping her children's world normal, and what she refuses to let them grow up believing.
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Khloe Kardashian on keeping her children's world normal, and what she refuses to let them grow up believing.
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#jayshetty #khloekardashian #shorts #onpurpose #podcast
Dr Joe Dispenza on the situation you keep praying to escape, and why you were placed in it.
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Dr Joe Dispenza on the situation you keep praying to escape, and why you were placed in it.
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The opposite of self-doubt isn't confidence. If you're waiting to feel confident before you act, you could be waiting forever.
In this episode, Dr. Shadé Zahrai and Jay Shetty talk about what really drives your self-doubt. She says it comes down to four things. She shows you how to spot which one is yours.
Shadé shares a study where people were given a fake scar. Then the scar was secretly wiped off. They still felt judged by everyone they met. She opens up about hiding behind her cubicle at a law firm, sure she was a hiring mistake. And Jay shares why his hands shake before a big talk, and why he stopped fighting it.
Learn why feeling like a fraud can be a good sign. And learn the short reply to say when someone tells you, "You've changed."
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Chapters
0:00 The four drivers behind your self-doubt
1:56 The fake scar experiment
5:14 Four habits of people who don't accept themselves
9:48 Why you are not your thoughts
12:13 What Nobel Prize winners do outside of work
14:04 Why your brain loves the worst case
17:28 Why your hands shake when you care
19:40 Feeling like a hiring mistake at a law firm
24:44 Why imposter syndrome has the wrong name
30:49 The real opposite of self-doubt
33:43 Bruno and the endless complaining
38:47 The "I could, I will" list
41:08 The three-second fix for speaking up in meetings
43:05 When a coworker takes credit for your work
49:53 Why she asked her husband to marry her
53:11 What to say when people tell you you've changed
56:55 The driver who just cut you off
59:18 Care less, care more
Watch the FULL episode on Netflix & Spotify 🎙️
Netflix - https://dub.sh/QaUsKeD
Spotify - https://dub.sh/axUXylv
Episode Resources:
https://www.shadezahrai.com
https://www.instagram.com/shadezahrai
https://www.linkedin.com/in/shadezahrai/
http://www.youtube.com/@Dr.ShadeZahrai
https://www.tiktok.com/@shadezahrai
Watch the full episode with Dr. Shadé Zahrai:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=z4joNCXHGuE
45:57
The opposite of self-doubt isn't confidence. If you're waiting to feel confident before you act, you could be waiting forever.
In this episode, Dr. Shadé Zahrai and Jay Shetty talk about what really drives your self-doubt. She says it comes down to four things. She shows you how to spot which one is yours.
Shadé shares a study where people were given a fake scar. Then the scar was secretly wiped off. They still felt judged by everyone they met. She opens up about hiding behind her cubicle at a law firm, sure she was a hiring mistake. And Jay shares why his hands shake before a big talk, and why he stopped fighting it.
Learn why feeling like a fraud can be a good sign. And learn the short reply to say when someone tells you, "You've changed."
JAY'S DAILY WISDOM DELIVERED STRAIGHT TO YOUR INBOX
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Chapters
0:00 The four drivers behind your self-doubt
1:56 The fake scar experiment
5:14 Four habits of people who don't accept themselves
9:48 Why you are not your thoughts
12:13 What Nobel Prize winners do outside of work
14:04 Why your brain loves the worst case
17:28 Why your hands shake when you care
19:40 Feeling like a hiring mistake at a law firm
24:44 Why imposter syndrome has the wrong name
30:49 The real opposite of self-doubt
33:43 Bruno and the endless complaining
38:47 The "I could, I will" list
41:08 The three-second fix for speaking up in meetings
43:05 When a coworker takes credit for your work
49:53 Why she asked her husband to marry her
53:11 What to say when people tell you you've changed
56:55 The driver who just cut you off
59:18 Care less, care more
Watch the FULL episode on Netflix & Spotify 🎙️
Netflix - https://dub.sh/QaUsKeD
Spotify - https://dub.sh/axUXylv
Episode Resources:
https://www.shadezahrai.com
https://www.instagram.com/shadezahrai
https://www.linkedin.com/in/shadezahrai/
http://www.youtube.com/@Dr.ShadeZahrai
https://www.tiktok.com/@shadezahrai
Watch the full episode with Dr. Shadé Zahrai:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=z4joNCXHGuE
Mikayla Nogueira on the moment she knew, and what it took to stop making excuses for someone else's choices.
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Mikayla Nogueira on the moment she knew, and what it took to stop making excuses for someone else's choices.
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The job, the person, the thing that fell through. Jay on why the miss was the message.
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The job, the person, the thing that fell through. Jay on why the miss was the message.
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#jayshetty #shorts #onpurpose #podcast
The person who snapped at you today is carrying something you cannot see. Jay on choosing kindness before you know the story.
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#jayshetty #shorts #onpurpose #podcast
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The person who snapped at you today is carrying something you cannot see. Jay on choosing kindness before you know the story.
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#jayshetty #shorts #onpurpose #podcast
Some people will never say sorry. Jay on healing anyway, and why your peace cannot wait on someone else's conscience.
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#jayshetty #shorts #onpurpose #podcast
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Some people will never say sorry. Jay on healing anyway, and why your peace cannot wait on someone else's conscience.
Watch and listen to On Purpose on Netflix & Spotify.
#jayshetty #shorts #onpurpose #podcast
You can’t keep love at 100 watts forever. But a dimmer light can last a lot longer.
In this episode, Matthew McConaughey and Jay Shetty talk about what a free day looks like when you love to work. Matthew explains why he stopped saying “midlife crisis.” And he shares the question he can’t stop asking himself since turning 50.
He tells a story from after Hurricane Katrina. An 80-year-old woman stood where her house used to be and asked him for one thing. He talks about the three people who have passed away that he still runs his big choices by. And he says why he thinks real religion is selfish.
Learn why he expects perfection from himself but tries to be happy with an 88. And learn why he believes God will say “you’re welcome.”
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Chapters
0:00 What a day with no plan looks like
2:00 Why he loves building so much
4:44 Naming this chapter of his life
5:23 Why “midlife crisis” is the wrong word
6:13 The four filters between you and your art
12:13 Why we’re so afraid to fail
13:07 The word that made his shoulders cave
15:10 Why real religion is selfish
18:04 Is thinking long-term a luxury?
20:20 The woman who asked where to put her foot
29:08 Expecting perfection, living with an 88
33:17 The council in the sky
37:12 Why he’s a trust first guy
44:50 The fish on the beach in South India
48:25 The biggest mistake we make about love
55:23 Why the world is conspiring to make you happy
1:01:41 What makes a good dad
1:06:15 A note from his oldest friend
Watch the FULL episode on Netflix & Spotify 🎙️
Netflix - https://dub.sh/QaUsKeD
Spotify - https://dub.sh/axUXylv
Full Episode With Matthew McConaughey:
https://youtu.be/i0IBy1XWDKA
Episode Resources:
Poems & Prayers | http://poemsprayers.com/
Instagram | https://www.instagram.com/officiallymcconaughey/
YouTube | https://www.youtube.com/channel/UChH3PVceKAMkFXHza0PlX_Q
X | https://x.com/McConaughey
Facebook | https://www.facebook.com/MatthewMcConaughey/
TikTok | https://www.tiktok.com/@officiallymcconaughey_m
1:08:34
You can’t keep love at 100 watts forever. But a dimmer light can last a lot longer.
In this episode, Matthew McConaughey and Jay Shetty talk about what a free day looks like when you love to work. Matthew explains why he stopped saying “midlife crisis.” And he shares the question he can’t stop asking himself since turning 50.
He tells a story from after Hurricane Katrina. An 80-year-old woman stood where her house used to be and asked him for one thing. He talks about the three people who have passed away that he still runs his big choices by. And he says why he thinks real religion is selfish.
Learn why he expects perfection from himself but tries to be happy with an 88. And learn why he believes God will say “you’re welcome.”
JAY’S DAILY WISDOM DELIVERED STRAIGHT TO YOUR INBOX
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Chapters
0:00 What a day with no plan looks like
2:00 Why he loves building so much
4:44 Naming this chapter of his life
5:23 Why “midlife crisis” is the wrong word
6:13 The four filters between you and your art
12:13 Why we’re so afraid to fail
13:07 The word that made his shoulders cave
15:10 Why real religion is selfish
18:04 Is thinking long-term a luxury?
20:20 The woman who asked where to put her foot
29:08 Expecting perfection, living with an 88
33:17 The council in the sky
37:12 Why he’s a trust first guy
44:50 The fish on the beach in South India
48:25 The biggest mistake we make about love
55:23 Why the world is conspiring to make you happy
1:01:41 What makes a good dad
1:06:15 A note from his oldest friend
Watch the FULL episode on Netflix & Spotify 🎙️
Netflix - https://dub.sh/QaUsKeD
Spotify - https://dub.sh/axUXylv
Full Episode With Matthew McConaughey:
https://youtu.be/i0IBy1XWDKA
Episode Resources:
Poems & Prayers | http://poemsprayers.com/
Instagram | https://www.instagram.com/officiallymcconaughey/
YouTube | https://www.youtube.com/channel/UChH3PVceKAMkFXHza0PlX_Q
X | https://x.com/McConaughey
Facebook | https://www.facebook.com/MatthewMcConaughey/
TikTok | https://www.tiktok.com/@officiallymcconaughey_m
Quinlan Walther on the small test that tells you everything about how present you really are with the people you love.
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Quinlan Walther on the small test that tells you everything about how present you really are with the people you love.
Watch the FULL episode on Netflix & Spotify.
#jayshetty #quinlanwalther #shorts #onpurpose #podcast